19 AugFriends Make Aging Fun

 

 

The other evening, Bea had a great chat on the phone with one of her best friends (she has 2 “best buds” and the three of them have been friends for around 40 years). It was during that laugh-filled conversation that she realized why she loves her long time friendships – these are the friends that truly understand her.  They make her laugh, and cry, and let her know when she’s being goofy and needs a “reality check.” These two friends accept her opinionated self, and she accepts them and their quirks.

Everyone needs friendships like this. And maybe a few new friendships, just to add a little spice to our lives. Researchers point out that a network of good friends and other social connections become particularly important as we age.

Friends = LongevityThe Australian Longitudinal Study of Ageing (ALSA), a 10 year longevity study, examined the connection between friendship and longevity, and it’s a positive one!  Other research concurs with the ALSA findings.

So besides living a longer (and more fun) life, what are some of the other benefits of friendships?

  • Good friends give you support when you need it.  Bea’s  two best buds, and a couple other close friends, always have the ability to give her a mental health boost.

 

  • They make you feel valued and accepted. 

 

  • You can laugh your head off with your friends! 

 

  • When you do something stupid, friends call you on it. 

 

 

These are just a few of the reasons that Bea loves her friends – how about you, readers?  What makes YOUR friendships great?

 

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16 AugAnti-Aging Supplements for Boomers and Seniors

Bea’s dad would have been 94 years old today, August 16 (Happy birthday, Dad) died in 2003 at the ripe old age of 86.  Even at that age, Bea doesn’t remember him taking any kind of prescription  medications.

In fact, what he did take was vitamin and herbal supplements – he’d started doing this in the 1960′s; he was truly ahead of his time when it came to health.  Like old Euell Gibbons, he also liked natural foods such as carob, wheat germ, herbs, and the like.  Unlike Euell, he never munched on any part of a pine tree (“Some parts are edible, you know.”)

If he were alive today, Bea’s dad would still be following his lifelong habit of taking supplements, just like aging experts suggest doing.  They point out that all you have to do is go to your community’s health food store, or even your mass merchandiser, for that matter, and you’ll find all kinds of longevity boosters.

Here’s a description of a few of those anti-agers: 

  • Alpha-Lipoic Acid (ALA) –  A powerful anti-oxidant, made by our bodies.  You know those free radicals that attack your cells and age you?  ALA battles ‘em, and wins.  This is one of the few anti-oxidants that can dissolve in both water or fat, so it fights free-radicals in all parts of our cells. ALA is also a “recycler;” it renews Vitamins C and E in our bodies* You can read more about ALA’s benefits at Dr. Nicholas Perricone’s blog.

 

  • Coenzyme Q10  - Like ALA, this anti-oxidant is also made by our bodies. Coenzyme Q10  is found in all cells, but mainly in those surrounding the heart muscle, since the heart needs the most fuel to function. Before the age of 40, we have a lot of this anti-oxidant floating around in our bodies; after 40, supplies decrease drastically.* According to the University of Maryland Medical Center, Coenzyme Q10  increases energy and helps the immune system,
    along with preventing or treating heart disease.

 

  • Pycnogenol – Euell Gibbons would be happy; this patented supplement is an extract of the maritime pine tree. It contains a concentrated amount of  bioflavonoids with antioxidant qualities, and the majority of these bioflavonoids are joined together to form proanthocyanidins.*  (Quite a mouthful, hmm?) Pycnogenol lessens our risk for heart disease, strengthens our capillaries, (the smallest blood vessels in our bodies) and fights free radicals.  Other research indicates that it helps prevent blood clots, lowers blood pressure, and may improve our lung function – other benefits can be found in this article at Nutritional Reviews.org.

 

  • Grape seed Extract – Grapeseed extract contains polyphenols, (anti-aging bioflavonoids),  and one in particular, procyanidin, is an anti-ager for both the inside and outside of our bodies.  This polyphenol gives makes our skin look younger and also help our eyesight, our joints, our heart health, and more.** You can read more about the health benefits of grape seed extract at this article from the Live Strong website.

These are just four of the many anti-aging supplements that nature has provided for us.  Which ones have you read about?  Bea would love to hear your thoughts and comments.

 

Sources:

*Van Tine, J., Doherty, B. & Editors of Prevention Health. (1999). Growing Younger. Breakthrough Age-Defying Secrets.

**Freer, Oliver (2006-2008). Grape seed extract and the prevention of chronic degenerative disease. http://www.preventive-health-guide.com/publisher.html

 

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08 AugShingles – Yikes!

Remember having the chicken pox?  Bea was around 6 when she got them.  Not one of her most pleasant childhood memories – her mom slathering calamine lotion on those itchy, ugly blistery things and Bea actually wishing she was well enough to go back to school because besides the itching, being stuck in the house was so darn boring!

Well, just to add insult to injury, those of us who had chicken pox as kids can be susceptible to shingles when we get old, which is caused by the same virus, varicella-zoster. With a name like that, how could that virus be anything BUT bad??  The chicken pox virus stays dormant in your body for all those years, then pops up again and raises hell.

Shingles can be a nasty virus which normally lasts for 2 weeks to a month.  It appears as a painful blistery rash on your body. Check out the photos on Wikipedia for a glimpse. Wikipedia points out that even after the rash goes away, some people continue to suffer from nerve pain for a long time afterwards, a condition called postherpetic neuralgia.  There can be other complications as well, as pointed out in this article from the Mayo Clinic.

Higher risk factors for shingles include:*

  1. Being over the age of 60
  2. Having chicken pox before you turn a year old
  3. Having a weak immune system due to disease or medications

The good thing is, there’s a vaccine that reduces the risk of getting shingles. The CDC recommends this vaccine, called Zostavax® for people 60 and older.  The CDC talks about what you need to know about the vaccine here.

The bottom line is that shingles just doesn’t sound like a lot of fun!  Don’t know about you, but Bea’s thinking that when the big 6-0 rolls around, she’ll be talking to her Doc about the vaccine.

For FurtherReading

 

Source:

*PubMed Health. (May 25, 2010). Shingles Herpes Zoster. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001861/

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03 AugAge-Proofing Your Home

About a week before her second grandchild was born, my 63 year old sister fell in her home and fractured her wrist. That was 6 weeks ago, and she’s still recovering. My sister’s fall brought to my mind the ideas of household safety, and how important it is as we age.

My sister is one of the over 5 million Americans who are injured by falls in or outside their home annually, a statistic that comes from the Home Safety Council.* Hundreds of seniors die from falls each year, and tens of thousands of them end up in the hospital for their injuries.  For those seniors who are over 65, falls are the primary cause of death!

According to Claire Charlton, who wrote the article “Home Safe Home,” there are some changes we can make in our homes before we get injured from a fall:

In bathrooms:

  • Replace your bath mat with non-stick adhesive strips.
  • Add grab bars to tub and toilet areas.
  • If you can afford to remodel your bathroom, get rid of the bathtub and replace it with a no-step shower.

On stairways:(I’ve actually fallen going up the stairs too darn fast; after that happened, I walked up those stairs a lot more carefully!)

  • Add a porch railing if you have several steps leading to your porch.
  • Clear clutter off your stairways!
  • Add stairway lifts.
  • More safe stairway tips can be found here.

In the kitchen:

  • Keep it well-lit, as an aid to aging vision. For example, have lights added under the cupboards.*
  • If you have a rug in front of your sink, make sure it’s non-skid.
  • Use a step stool instead of a chair when reaching for something in an upper cupboard.
  • Close cupboard doors.

Got any more safety tips for seniors?  Please feel free to comment!

 

For Further Reading:

Read more about home safety for seniors at the Home Safety Council website.

Room-by-room safety for people of all ages.

 

Source:

*Charlton, Claire. (June 2011). Home Safe Home. www.seniorlivingmi.com

 

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21 JulLaugh In The Face of Aging: Exercise!

Do you want to defy aging?  Exercise! It’s the proverbial fountain of youth.  Really.

Check this out: Bea Boomer is 54, yet she looks 34; and it’s all because she exercises regularly!

Don’t believe me?  Well, take a look at the un-airbrushed photos below:

Bea when she started her exercise routine

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The new Bea!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yes. I swear. The photos are the real Bea.

Ok. I’m exaggerating. Slightly.

In truth, though, a regular exercise program can do wonders for our physical and mental well-being.  And experts say it’s truly age-defying.

With different types of fitness, the mind and body benefit in varying ways. Take cardio exercise, for example. If you get 30 minutes of moderate intensity cardio, five days a week, or high intensity cardio for 20 minutes a day, 3 days a week* you’ll:

  • Get a healthier heart, lower your cholesterol levels, stave off obesity, and reduce your stress levels
  • Reduce your risk of developing cancer
  • Strengthen your immune system
  • Slow down aging!

Strength training (8 to 10 strength exercises, 8 to 12 reps each, twice a week*) will:

  • Boost your metabolism
  • Help you lose that muffin top
  • Strengthen your bones

At the CDC website, you can read more about strength training for  older adults and how it helps maintain our quality of life.

Core training (Ab, back, and pelvis exercises, done two to three times a week*) will:

  • Strengthen your back
  • Give you better balance and coordination
  • Improve your posture, and more, as seen in this article from the AerobicTime website.

Finally, stretching exercises are also important.  You should stretch all major muscle groups at least two times a week; ideally, every day.* Stretching improves your flexibility as you age. It helps maintain your range of motion, which leads to less aches and pains. It lessens your risk of injury from other exercise activities**.

 

 Sources:

*LADIES HOME JOURNAL. BODY TALK; HEALTH. NOVEMBER 2009.

**Mayo Clinic. Stretching: Focus on Flexibility. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/stretching/HQ01447

 

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17 Jul8 Great Health Sites for Boomers/Seniors

 

  • Mayo Clinic Senior Health Center:  What can we expect as we age?  What are some common health concerns and how can we prevent them?  The Mayo Clinic helps answer these questions in its Senior Health Center. The Mayo Clinic offers articles, multimedia options, expert answers and healthy
    aging resources.

 

  • Health and Age:  This site promises up-to-date health and wellness information for 55+ crowd. It provides an appealing format where you can learn about conditions and diseases, latest health news, news articles; and get answers to your health questions.

 

  • AetnaInteliHealth Seniors’ Health:  Here, you’ll find articles like “6 Ways to Boost Your Memory” and “How the Five Senses Change with Age” to
    help you learn more about aging health issues and conditions.  The site provides the latest health news, interactive tools, and “Ask the Expert.”

 

  • CDC on Aging: The Center for Disease Control is a comprehensive site for adults of all ages.  The healthy aging sections includes topics such as: Health information for older adults, healthy brain initiative, caregiving, mental health and aging, and more.

 

  • Medline Plus Seniors’ Health: This site includes a medical encyclopedia and othern reference options for senior health, latest aging health news, health screening resources, information on specific conditions, and much more.

 

 

  • WebMd’s Healthy Aging Health Center: WebMD is one of Bea’s favorite sites for just about everything “health and wellness.”  So of course she loves its healthy aging section.  What will you find there?  Informative slideshows, pertinent articles, quizzes, and more.  The Top 12 Topics links are guides to subjects such as fiber, calcium, sleep, memory and vitamins, just to name a few.  The 50+ Guide has links to “Healthy Body,” “Mind and Spirit,” “Health Care 101,”  among others, and they’re all great resources.   Bea’s really enjoying the “News and Features for Healthy Seniors” section, which has interesting and up-to-date articles.** One thing Bea doesn’t like about the WebMD site: The survey pop-ups; they’re annoying

**See some examples below in the “For Further Reading” section

  • Every Day Health for Seniors: Every day health has something Bea didn’t notice on other healthy aging websites:  Webcasts about aging topics – so you can listen, instead of read.  The two most recent webcasts listed were: “The Joy of Aging” and “Pumping Up Your Memory Muscle.”  Every Day Health also featured a senior health expert, a senior health blog, a  “Senior Health in Depth” section, and brain games to help sharpen our brain cells.   The site is easy to navigate, which Bea always appreciates. 

For Further Reading:

  1. U.S.Life Expectancy Lags Behind
  2. Scientists Find New Clues to Aging
  3. Olive Oil Linked to Reduced Stroke Risk

 

 

16 JulMoney Saving Tips From AARP

 

On a budget?  AARP can help – Check out 99 Great Ways to Save, from their July/August 2011 AARP Bulletin. 

Many of those tips are from readers.  If you’ve got a great money saving tip, share it with other boomers and seniors through this link at AARP’s website.

 

13 JulOh, Those Aging Bones!

News Flash, Joan Rivers and all those other celebrities who yearn to look twenty!  (Fools).  All those face lifts, Botox, and eyelid lifts aren’t going to be enough to hide your age.  According to this article at MSNBC health, you’re going to have to get your facial bones re-done, too!  Too bad, so sad.

As for Bea Boomer, well, she thinks she’s just gonna let her face grow old naturally.  No pulling her facial skin back and bunching it up at the back of her neck, plasticizing her face, botoxing her forehead (no facial expressions? Creepy) or hiking up her eyebrows so she looks like some kind of surprised freak.

And especially, no restructuring of her facial bones.  Bea’s natural face is beginning to look better and better to her.  Plus, think of all the money she’ll save. She can take that dough and spend it on traveling, grandkids, good books, good music, fine wine, and all those other things that make life swell.

She just won’t look in the mirror.

 

For Further Reading:

According to researchers, face lifts should include bone implants.

 

 

 

 

 

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11 JulAging – To Fear Or Not To Fear?

Aging, Schmaging. Just enjoy the ride, honey!

 

When Bea was young, she was afraid of this whole aging thing.  When she turned 30, it was a catastrophe! And 40? Well, at 40 there was no turning back – she had started her slide down the hill.

“What ’s there to look forward to now?” Bea wondered.

Gray hair. Wrinkles. Crinkly legs. Sagging chin(s). Bodily function issues. Senility. The “S” word was thrown around a lot by Bea’s parents to describe their elders – she thought it was inevitable.

Way back then, Bea didn’t think “old age” would be very fun.

Suddenly, 40 became 54!! What the . . . ??  Bea is 6 years (OMG) away from the big 6-0.  Holy shmoly, Batman.

Bea is amazed that she’s handling it so well. 

Bea’s found some great things about getting older, and, of  course, some not so great things.

Good things first:

  • Bea enjoys the present moment more – she doesn’t worry about the future, for two reasons: (1) It’ll be here soon enough! and (2) It’ll take care of itself

 

  • She’s found peace of mind (something she’s always craved) by changing her outlook and approach to life. In her youth, she wasted too much time with
    negative self-talk and fear. She finally realized that if she wanted things to change,  she had to change them herself.

 

  • Bea’s gotten a better perspective on what’s important in her life. And it isn’t keeping up with the Jones, or any of the material stuff she used to crave.  Family, good friends, good health, good marriage – you can’t put  a price on those things!

 

  • Bea’s attitude: Accept me as I am.  Or not.  It doesn’t matter with Bea – she’s happy with herself, and that’s what counts.

 

  • A good laugh or two (or more),  every day, does wonders for her mental health!

 

  • Being good enough is enough. No more striving for perfection for Bea.  It takes up too much time, and she never reached it anyway!

 

Lousy things about getting old:

  • Brain farts (silent but deadly).

 

  • Body parts that ache for no apparent reason.

 

  • As she mentioned in an earlier post, she can’t read that teeny, tiny print without her reading glasses!! This drives her nuts.

 

  • The thought  of becoming vulnerable and losing her independence. (Not something that she dwells on, of course; if she did, her peace of mind would be shot).

The bottom line, for Bea, is that so far, aging has been a good journey.  She’s working to maintain her good health and peace of mind.  She’s enjoying life, most of the time. She tries to push her brain cells to keep ‘em moving around in there.

To fear aging or not to fear it?  She’ll go with the NOT.  What about you, readers?  What are your aging pros and cons?

 

 

For Further Reading:

(The Good Stuff)

Age and the Power of Positive Thinking

The Surprising Joys of Aging

Benefits of Aging

(The Not-So-Good Stuff)

The Downside of Aging in America

Expectations Don’t Always Match Realities of Aging

 

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07 JulInsomnia Solutions – Begone, Sleep Thief!

Bea simply can’t let the sleep thief, insomnia, get away with stealing her ZZZZ’s, as well as her peace of mind.  So what can be done?

Obviously, there are some things that Bea can’t change.  She’s getting older, and she’s a woman.  Both are factors in this insomnia issue.

However, if she makes some changes in her lifestyle, she may be able to increase the quality of her sleep.  The key is actually making these changes.

The authors of the book Growing Younger provided some ideas for Bea to enhance her sleep, in a natural way.*
Here are some of their suggestions:

  • Allow yourself some time (around 45 minutes) to relax before bed. Bea knows, from her own experiences, that being on the computer playing a game just before bed is a no-no! Don’t balance your checkbook, watch the nightly news, or start an argument with your spouse.
  • Quit looking at your clock! Luckily for Bea, the clock is on a table on Mr. B’s side of the bed, and he always turns it toward the wall.
  • Exercise during the day to help ward off stress.  If your mind is relaxed, it’s easier to fall asleep.
  • Before going to bed, drink an herbal tea with chamomile, valerian, or other calming herbs.
  • Tune out with relaxing music - When Bea listens to her meditational music CDs just before bedtime or even in bed while she’s trying to get to sleep, she usually falls asleep faster and sleeps better.

WebMD talks about other natural sleep solutions in its article, found here.  If you’re looking at supplements such as melatonin, valerian root, or others, however, take a look at the label. If you are taking certain medications, or have certain conditions, these may not be right for you.

HelpGuide also talks about the reasons for insomnia, as well as cures and treatments.

Readers, I’m sure you have more good sleep suggestions!  Feel free to comment or email me; I’d love to hear your thoughts.

 

Source:

*Van Tine, J., Doherty, B. & Editors of Prevention. Growing Younger: Breakthrough Age-Defying Secrets.

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